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Human quantum – Side the box

Human quantum – Side the box

As I read a post from John Nicholas Stoodley in Google+, I felt a beautiful connection in between our words.  I could not resist the urge of jamming ideas with his readings. I see human quantum as a way to picture our unlimited possibilities. It gives us a kind of permission to step outside the box of the belief systems we were brought in.

By mixing a little modern biology and quantum physics in our questioning about faith, gods, and the purpose of our existence, we move our thinking to a peripheral view of what science recognizes. It allows us to step in the strange dimensions of the unnamed, unsaid or the unthought-of conceptions usually referred as spiritual or esoteric. But for now let’s call that new space of thinking Human Quantic because it serves our purpose.

For instance, let’s take the observer theory and the new DNA discovery as a (largely) simplified example of our unlimited possibilities. It seems that our human DNA has definitely the ability to re-organize matter at a very small level, like photons. Let’s daydream and imagine that human DNA is the operator of the observer effect; re-organizing matter. From that peripheral concept, DNA would be a “by default configuration system or a by default frequency” ready to be customized using the connection of the mind body and soul to modulate matter and reality as we feel it.

Then let’s introduce the disturbing idea that the communication skills of the human cells are not localized in one central point, meaning not only as a whole in the body. These researches established that one’s DNA stays connected to its body shell owner regardless of the distance in between them. It means that the particles we are made of are communicating all the time no matter their localization. We are not locked down in a specific space and time. Furthermore our DNA is responding instantly to stimuli with thousands of miles of separation.

Now, if this hypothesis is believable. If it was to be authenticated, tested and proven. Would it be possible for us to align ourselves with that powerful tool to change the world as we know it? The scientific spiritual answer is yes, we do have the inner ability to connect to each other, to create a network of people focussing on a specific feeling every day that is changing the world, Healing people, healing the world. It is called daydreaming or meditating or praying and its core feelings are powerful beyond what we conceive: Love, compassion empathy.

I wonder what we are waiting for to test drives these new possibilities of the human potential.

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Find who you are

Find who you are

In the home business world, keeping our focus on the desired outcomes is the first most vital ability we need to harvest. Until it becomes a well anchored skill, most of us struggle with prioritizing actions on a daily basis mainly because starting a home business commands also a whole new sets of values, habits and actions. It’s all new; it’s all good and scary. Everything is urgent and we hear a lot about finding a sense of urgency to hustle better, to want more, to do to do to do to do. But, one of the scariest parts comes from not knowing ourselves deeply enough. In order to stay the course, we need to rectify our actions and to keep following what makes us powerful beyond measure: Our values. I know it’s going back to the basics but values help us find who we are.

A few months ago I read Johnathan Fields blog. The topic was about narrowing down the reasons why we choose the home business lifestyle or why we choose to become entrepreneur ? Or why do we want do be all of that and save the world ?

To find out what does really motivate that decision helps connect the dots to have a stronger vision. I know it has been said over and over but it’s always about the angle we look at that kind of stuff that makes the difference.  I love this set of questions for its simple to the point approach, pursuing the real dominion of our hearts and souls as humans beings not productivity machines.

Here are the not so easy questions to answer that makes us feel more connected to ourselves.

  • What do I care about?
    What do I hold sacred, both in business and life?
    What lights me up. What would I work hard to do for free?
  • What empties me out, emotionally, psychologically and physically?
    Who do I want to serve?
    Do I care more about serving or building?
  • What do I value on a non-negotiable level?
    What am I great at?
    What am I terrible at?
    How do I want to spend each day?. How do I want to live my life?

You can read more from Good life project  – 11 questions here.

If you want to change your lifestyle, feel the luxury of being your true self; if you are ready to modify your income set-up to gain more freedom with your family, work, recreation and others occupations. Step one: easy does it. Send me an email. Let’s find a moment to talk over the phone or hangout on internet, let’s connect. From there we will figure out what’s next for you,  you will figure it out and than we will work on that together.

 

Sassy goals

Sassy goals

I love sassy goals, I love sassy missions.

I love to list my goals, more importantly I love to write down lists of actions. I select timeline, reachable tasks, sustainable efforts, some more measurable, some less measurable. I love putting down on paper the overflow of ideas clustered in my mind. It gives me a sense of importance and of clarity from which I can narrow down my sassy goals.  A couple years ago, I regularly pledge to get to the bottom of the to do list hanging on my board, nagging me. Some of these building business chores were holding me back; it was all new stuffs for me. Paralyzing me. Usually when I stayed too long in an unknown territory, the old belief system stating that ‘I’m not good enough’ grew some power over my self-confidence resulting in loosing the sassy effect. No sassy effect. No sassy goals.

 

I tried everything. I’ve put together vision boards, self-declarations and I planned the whole year ahead with 3 months goals representing milestones of my success. There was still something wrong. I was doing it by fueling from my own power and it was never enough. After a short time, I was done with the race, extenuated, so out of order. I was going through an internal power surge, not a breakdown, not a depression, not a burnout but I kept operating from my very rational intellectual conception of what I needed to do in order to succeed. It was not enough energy to take in a marathon like starting a flourishing business with purpose. There was no sassy goals, no fun to show up, just meaningless humdrums like the old days at the office.

I used to think procrastination as a defect, a lack of will or leadership, the proof of the missing piece separating brilliant successful people from the others.  I was right about one thing there was a missing piece: Me wholehearted 1, brave, courageous and willing to walk the extra miles to get out there. I discovered I was shy of my natural sassiness in the business field. I redefined out there again until I felt locked and loaded with delicious joyful bliss, until I felt like starting right now.  Then I realized my list of goals was more difficult to achieve than I thought and, there was too much to be done. Even if died  as a 135 years old healthy wise goddess, there was still not enough time to build all of that.

So, I went for not more than 3 sassy crazy achievable priorities for the next 12 months. I chunked each of them in smaller goals and I established milestones in order to stay the course. My oh! My goddess, once it’s done it sounds so easy and it feels empowering.

My three sassy goals fueled by purpose, passion, love and commitment are:

  1. Creating a healthy sparkling unstoppable network of builders of benevolence in 2016.
  2. Creating outstanding solid weekly residual incomes to share wealth, love and solidarity among all of us by August 18th.
  3. Creating hope, inner freedom and financial relief to support humanist organization give birth to their projects in a sustainable way.

Now, we all know it is all possible if I let go of the need to stick rigidly to the plan. The plan defines the final destination; the milestones are to stay the course. The weekly commitments and actions design the compound effect 2. The first step is to engage and execute on a daily basis to create commitments. No more questions ask. My true freedom is to be do be do who I choose to: a sassy successful coach, entrepreneur and blogger.

  1. Brené Brown wrote exceptional books about living wholehearted.
  2. Darren Hardy is the author of the book The Compound effect.

 

 

One business with an amazingly crazy purpose

One business with an amazingly crazy purpose

 

My business purpose does not share a standard business plan. A business with a purpose simply means that caring for others is the main reason for producing  profits and  incomes. I believe that by building a network of people willing to care for others with more urgent needs, we are changing the world.

We do so by building compassionate sustainable actions and by creating an unforgettable experience of oneness for the people we serve. I believe we need to feel good experiences to want better experiences.

We need a memory of goodwill for wanting to recreate goodwill, we need a memory of joyful benevolence to feel it is possible

We need to be part of the change.

Are you tired of falling short of energy?  Do you feel like your days are a never-ending short story? Would you love to wake up to a fresher mind? How about walking in your life with clarity about what you really want. These questions redefine my conception of freedom and the manifesto of the business I created.

Health triggers better judgement, better learning skills, better decision making and more compassionate people. To begin to change the world we need  all of these elements. Why? Because optimal healthy human beings agree to share their wealth as their mind bodies and spirits leave the survival mode. They honor their body with nourishing food, supplements free from chemicals hazards, and their body loves them back. Olympics athletes, World Tennis Player, Professional Climbers have this one thing in common: They already experienced this exhilarating relationship with their bodies. They know how amazing and resilient the human mind body and spirit can be. They say it changes ones perception of the world when they feel they can rely on such wonderful teammates, their healthy bodies. It is a huge transformation creating what is needed to operate changes.

This is the main reason I chose my affiliation with Usana Health Sciences. They give me an all stars customer services, a topnotch remuneration program on a week-to-week basis. Their products meet the pharmaceutical standards and are clinically proven 100% efficient. My partnership with them offers me the unique opportunity to share wellness, to change lives from the roots to the soul without any concerns about the quality or the efficiency. This is how I create residual incomes.

On the other hand, my coaching is about breaking free from the burden of everyday life. And I know how my freedom looks like; it looks just like me with a smile. My first epic goal is to support the creation of healthy minds bodies and luminous spirits for anybody who wants to live lightweight. Not lightly. Not trivial. Not scanty. Light weighted. With work and dedication, I coach from anywhere. We can meet in person or on the web. I am writing a book, composing new music and songs. I can serve the people with my gifts and share to the world my vision. I am seeking new partnerships to expand my reach as long as we share common values like integrity, benevolence for starter. Everything is possible. I love freedom with its infinite possibilities because your freedom looks like you with a smile.

My happiness results from helping others on their way to wellness and my definition of wellness is feeling astonishing almost all the time with myself. My happiness means sharing my wealth, coaching with positive psychological triggers, bringing joy and empowerment to the table. My roadmap to financial freedom includes blogging with openness, honesty, authenticity, different streams of residual incomes, building bridges between us and within us to resolve, reach and connect.

My Purpose

My livelihood comes from my purpose embedded in my heart and soul. It comes from my willingness to take part in a more fair rounded way of earning incomes and making small sustainable efforts to provide water, happiness, schools, gardening spaces, hugs and new homes for the orphans, shelter for the girls, teenagers or women wanting to change the hands they were dealt with.

My business plan is not a standard business plan. A business with a purpose simply means that caring for others is the main reason for producing  profits and  incomes. I believe that by building a network of people willing to care for others with needs more urgent, we are changing the world. We do so with compassionate sustainable actions and we create an unforgettable experience of oneness for the people we serve. I Believe we need to feel good experiences to want better experiences; we need a memory of goodwill for wanting to recreate goodwill. We need to be part of the change.

If we want things to change, it starts by becoming healthy, by sharing and by serving. By believing we are the change to come every single breath we take.

 

Daring the mood

Daring the mood

This morning I write about letting go. The never-ending list of letting go brings me to make an inventory about how I feel in my world, in my day. Is this how I want to feel?  What is there to keep? Should I fix it? Should I even try? Should I just let go?

When I count my blessings, solitude is one of them. I feel grateful for the strength to choose this way of life. It took me a while to clean up my life from negative vibes. I did not change my phone number and I did not move far away. In fact, even before I started to cleanse my relations, most of the negative acquaintances had already rejected me. Most of them felt intimidated by the vibrant, exuberant, passionate woman that I am. They think I changed and change scares many people.  My truth is that I lost track of myself and found my way back home.

What’s yours?

Yes, it is a journey in itself. Someday I feel vulnerable. I trick myself into believing I could dial back in their lives and sham myself into the person they want me to be. Just so you know, it rarely turns out in a luminous celebration of long lost friendships. Cleansing takes bravery and commitment.

Misery is a way of life; happiness is a state of mind.
Proverbs from Tibet

 

Before I go any further, I want to clear one thing. Seclusion is not solitude. Even if seclusion brings you solitude, the paradox is in the withdrawal. Solitude feels amazing, withdrawal not so much. Nevertheless, in the beginning, solitude gave me time to rationalize way too much which can feel a little bit uncomfortable. Old emotions are old habits and they stick as long as we let them. Old emotions are often harder to detect and by the time it operates fully in my headspace and in my body, I already slipped into The MOOD. That is my goal, changing the MOOD.

The MOOD happens by stealth. It stirs an old emotion and I slowly fall in the trap. For example, I feel vulnerable, here comes the inadequacy gremlins. Before I notice anything, I already want to prove myself to myself; consequently, I don’t stop for lunch, drink too much coffee, do not drink water at all, begin to think around circle, stops following my daily plan, do not exercise, meditate…the list goes on… Moreover, this is a mild encounter it can get worst with reverse results…like not doing feeling paralyzed and totally numb.

To forbid the Mood in my life I need to take care of myself no matter what happens. Drink 3 to 4 liters of water, go to the gym, take a walk in the woods, eat healthy food, drink a nutrimeal outside my office, take time to cleanse my spirit and organize my days to come. When I agree with myself, it is so easier. I feel exquisite. When I feel exquisite, I serve better. My concentration is channeled like in a funnel. These moments are graceful and energetically free from burdens. I can work and accomplish so much in less time. That space within amazes me. I keep my focus on the task, I take notes, I have a clear a vision of my desired outcome, I see the big picture, I feel confident and in control. There is no blur nor missing steps, the execution is flowing and flawless.

I am in my Zone daring the MOOD.

Change to be do be do

Change to be do be do

Sometimes my concentration is channeled like in a funnel. These moments are graceful and energetically free from burdens. I can work and accomplish so much in less time. That space within amazes me. I keep my focus on the task, I take notes, I have a clear vision of my desired outcome, I see the big picture, I feel confident and in control. There is no blur nor missing steps, the execution is flowing and flawless. I am in my zone.

What if I tell you right now I’m living that state of mind every time I choose to sit down, to work, to make the calls, to hustle my way in or to write. Do you really think it is possible or not?  What if I tell you my ability to focus is directly connected to my true desires.  Would you consider it more possible?

Staying in touch with my true desires landscapes my belief system. Owning my true desires ignite the best version of me effortlessly. When internet distracts me, when people snatch me away from my work, I silently agree to put out my fire, to disconnect myself from my true purpose. I let myself down.

Why would anybody do that? Why do I do that to myself?

There is no short explanation and we all end up doing it at one time or another. We all carry a personal legend we need to overwrite. We all need to face up with our hidden monsters and override them.  We all need to gentle our way back into ourselves.

It takes a daily commitment to master any kind of art, focusing is an art to master. Writing’s muscles need training, care and discipline; striving a web business commands a highly level of enthusiasm and dedication, an openness to learn and a good dose of faith for hammering away at the treadmill to get results, day after day.

Therefore, to find the energy to step in that craziness, I need to nurture my true desires by, among things, not forcing what is not there yet. I do my best with what I got. I sit down when I feel the words ready to manifest. I bet on the compound effect to change my old habits in new ones and to replace my old belief system with the more positive and uplifting version of myself. As every baby is set to walk for good at one point, I am too. I know I will fall, get up, get back on my feet, collapse 15 minutes, lose faith for another 20, crawl myself back together, strive, hustle, resist, lose sight of my purpose, fail at being my own best friend, win back my confidence, succeed, meet my goals and celebrate. And this is how my day goes in my new life of entrepreneur.

To keep my focus in my zone, I will give myself a path on the back every time I successfully do what I say I am going to do. I want to remember in the core of every cells of my body spirit and mind how empowering it feels to choose freedom.

My true freedom is to be do be do who I choose to.

 

 

Resolve and reach

Resolve and reach

I want to change the world; I am making health, freedom and happiness as the number one currency in the world for my business. By the way, I believe happiness is overrated, happiness is the most normal state of mind of all, and it is a gift from birth. So, I’m creating a wonderful extraordinary planet to live on, I dream food for 100% of living being on the planet, water for every single one, non-violent communication, no more slavery just living. I dream a lot, I envisioned my dream until it became crystal clear.  I know I am not alone in this evolution because more than 90% of the human population feels like I do. It is time for a change. We all feel it but I guess we do not know how to begin with that new step of our humanity.

To be quite honest, I really want the world to change its mind about the way we solve our problems, but I am as well attached to many things. What about you?

Before I unplugged the television, my belief around fixing the world was soaking in the fear of losing either what I possessed or what I strived to get.  I was into the bad habit of holding on to everything in case the world either crashed or collapsed.  The fear of lacking of everything from A to Z tainted my ability to see myself as a potential suitable change factor. I felt powerless most of my life, mostly powerless because change had become synonym of war, blood, orphans, fear, famine, camps. As a kid I watched the news every night at suppertime. I was fed with the fear of change through the cold war and then with all the other conflicts around the world.

As far as I can remember, I always wished for us to live in a more peaceful and even-handed world. That is my purpose. Making it happen on a human scale. Making  a difference on a very sustainable human scale. It means refusing the powerlessness mood that keep us away from building a better world for everybody including us. My first challenge is to blog, reach out and create a community of persons willing to feel healthy, happy, to experiment generosity and to be the change. I am building a network, a list, a community. May I count you in?

For things to improve, you have to improve. For things to get better, you have to get better. For
things to change, you have to change. When you change, everything changes for you.” Jim Rohn.

I am a better person, a better artist, a better entrepreneur, a better blogger, a better version of me when I serve a higher purpose. My first step is to embody my purpose in a website and to make it real and online. To do it. To keep doing it. To serve.

Resolve and reach.
Resolve means trying new things for different outcomes.
Reach means stretching beyond our upper limits to get it.
On your toes with soul.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Daring the resistance

Daring the resistance

I woke up in a very tired mood. No wonder, I got to bed with a to do list and woke up with an even bigger to do list. Feeling busy? Feeling overwhelmed? Are you losing it too? I know we prefer not to talk about these mornings and awful nights. We chose to be entrepreneur, to be successful, to feel the freedom, to show how it is possible to change the world, our lifestyle, to have a plan and I surely want  to stick to the plan.

This morning, I was literally fighting to open my eyes. They were closed, shut, I was in a locked down. A voice from within was advocating fiercely for an extended stay in bed. Another part of me was silently witnessing the takeover.  I swear my body has a mind of itself; it is clear. I concluded that somehow, my body is not always choosing me as the main pilot of the vessel. Does that make any sense to you?

I feel a resistance to change.

Isn’t it funny how we get the second role on the same day we set as the first day of our new life? How resistances are building up like sneaky gremlins ready to start a party as soon as we dare to think of implementing the fantastic daily plan we structured with such care?

Yes, today is Day 1. I will not deny myself of my first day. However it unwinds, it is mine and for me to keep.

I am supposed to embody a new self with brand new sets of rules especially designed to create more discipline and more productivity in my new entrepreneurial life. As I am writing this in a foreign language, several points come to my attention. I am writing a blog about my experiences.  I laugh about it because there is nothing else to do but accepting what is really going on.  I truly believe I will meditate, exercise yoga, do the sacred things to bring me up to speed to success another morning.

As to which morning, it has to be kept secret to elude the gremlins. They sabotage, they resist and they do not believe I should be the winning team. Can you believe they did all of that on my behalf? In one morning? Taking advantage of my sleepy mind?

Do you have your own clan of gremlins? How do you keep them in check?

 

 

Dare to Have it ALL.

Dare to Have it ALL.

Mothers, moms, motherhood!

We do not know each other; I dearly hope our paths will cross, eventually. I had two kids. They are grown-ups now. I raised them mostly alone; I had good jobs.  I went back to school, than I chose to freelance for a while, to reconnect with myself and to patch things up with the kids and with the dream life of my wildest dreams.

The wording patching up may seem dramatic; it is just one reality on human’s terms. Occasionally, we need to slow down, take a big breath, make an inventory and accept to grow with our decisions. In my case, having kids was the first biggest decision of my life; to let them go as free spirit was the second hardest decision for me and to learn to love them from a distance was the most tricky skill I ever crafted.

I believe that we keep alive the wisdom of our experiences by sharing it. I guess it is the modern way of leaning on each other, the new kind of tribe we can rely on.

  • To have it all is possible. I did succeed in several fields and professions; I bought a house by myself.
  • I guess the most important definition of my life is ALL. Women have to define their ALL.
  • 27 years ago, I was playing my life like a poker game, ALL IN, no regrets, no tomorrows. It was good it felt amazing. I was hooked on that feeling.
  • They changed me for the better. My way of living changed, they had needs I really wanted to cover for them.
  • I did not become the woman of my deepest fears. (loll) I just redefined the word ALL, including them. A new ALL IN.
  • Kids do not really listen to what we say; they mostly do what we do.
  • As they grow older, loving caring motherhood is a daily practice.
  • Parenthood is not an experiment but it is an experience, no matter what we believe, every baby is unique, every parent is unique.
  • Every soul is unique
  • The only person I can change is myself.
  • Love is not always flowing both ways, at the same time.
  • Compassion is the road back to love.

In my Twenties, I really thought that staying my own self in motherhood was a pretty obvious statement. I must say it wasn’t that easy to achieve and it is still a challenge from time to time. There is a universal layout for every kind of ‘’Womom’’ out there!

The Beautiful Woman of Modernity, the Amazing Mom, the Successful Professional Mother, the exquisite spouse…

I will let your imagination do the rest, the Medias bombard us with these images of who we should be or not be. Moreover, I am not even talking about what we should have or not have to eat. We can easily make a list of all the things we have to buy and show off in order to maintain these images. It is everywhere. More importantly, there is the family tree and the prohibited fruits we swore to never ate. We pledged to never act like them.

Yes, occasionally I fall back near the tree, in the zone. I crumble into a victimized state of mind. I see it like a New-York state of mind.  I was brought up in that environment, and it will always be there, somehow. It is acting like a sleeping beast. It does not manifest itself often but when it gets out, it actually takes control over my life.

When I decided to change that MOOD, I decided to change my mind about motherhood, about guilt, about shame, about being a woman and a mom.  I decided to liberate myself from that legacy, to tame the fear of not feeling enough by simply being me. It seems like a never-ending story but the efforts are worth it. Every day I gain ground by redefining my cored values and by daring to feel free.

Aren’t we all seeking to feel more freedom in our life ? What is your definition of having it ALL.